This week's posts will be all about Valentine's--the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Today I'm going to tell you a story about my very first Valentine. No, I don't mean the kind you had in 1st grade, when your mom would buy you a box of Rugrats valentines to give to all the kids in your class. I'm talking about the first time I had a boyfriend for Valentine's Day.
The year was 2003 and I was a sophomore. I met Kyle* when we were both teen counselors at camp the previous summer, and we went on several dates during the fall--it was that time when you were kind of seeing each other, but not really dating, you know? Back in my day, we referred to that as "talking." (We were real clever). Luckily, dear Kyle asked me to be his girlfriend at my Christmas party that year, so no more "talking" for us!
At first, I was REAL excited to actually be dating someone during Valentine's Day. However, as the day drew closer, I realized I had no idea what kind of gift to get, and I was starting to realize I honestly didn't care what he got me. It was at this moment in my life that I realized boyfriends weren't all they were cracked up to be.
|The more boys I met, the more I loved my dog! Amiright, Carrie Underwood?!?|
In the end, I put together a bag of chocolates and other sweets to give to him (including Little Debbie heart shaped cakes), but he never received it because I broke up with him shortly after Valentine's. (Not because he didn't send flowers to my school--it really was time to cut him loose.) The chocolates sat in my 4-H leader's office, and ended up being slowly consumed over the course of several 4-H meetings.
|Cool chocolates, Kyle.|
Later, one of our mutual friends mentioned to me that he was upset I never gave him a gift for Valentine's Day, which was fair. I'm sure that karma has paid me many times over for that one, as I never again had a boyfriend to shower me with gifts on Valentine's Day until nine years later when Matt and I were engaged.
Although I feel slightly guilty, I do believe it was for the best. After all, I walked away with an awesome book of Jack Handey quotes, and Kyle soon came to realize that he really wasn't into girls.
|If love is liking someone a lot, then we definitely were not in love.|
*Name was obviously changed, except "Kyle" is what my brother called him when he couldn't remember his real name, so maybe I'm not being so secretive.
All Love, dear friends,
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